Best interests-what is it?
The focus of the Family Law Act in parenting matters is on “the best interests of the child” as the paramount consideration” (s60CA). This notion of “best interests” permeates all legal discussion regarding children and is spoken of as if it is a thing that can be clearly identified, and that everyone who assists parents…
Yoga-more than mindfulness
As I drive away from a week long yoga retreat at Mission Beach, I feel balanced and at peace. I look out at the amazing scenes of nature around me and ponder on how different I feel to the trip from the airport some 7 days ago. I am also nervous to return to the…
See the power of a child focus approach!
Tracey and Reece have been a relationship for about 7 years. They have a 6 year old son Trent. Six months ago, Tracey discovered that Reece had been having an affair with a good friend of hers- Sharon. A separation followed, and Reece has not spent any time with Trent since then. He has initiated…
Tools for change-towards a child focused outcome
As a family lawyer or Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) we have an obligation to ensure discussions with our clients, and any action or outcomes, comply with our duty to the court[i], and our obligations under the legislation. [ii] How do we fulfill these responsibilities if our clients refuse to co-operate? What strategies can we…
National Mediation Conference 11-14 September 2016
Join me at the National Mediation Conference at the Gold Coast Convention and Exhibition Centre from 11 -14 September. There is such a great programme that you can explore at: http://www.mediationconference.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/NMC-2016-Conference-Program.pdf I am participating in the Workshop on Conflict Coaching presented by Professor Nadja Alexander on Conflict Coaching on Sunday 11 June. You can join…
What do family lawyers really think about Family Dispute Resolution?
By Susan Hamilton-Green Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) has been compulsory prior to issuing court proceedings in parenting matters for some time now, and has become an essential consideration for family lawyers in supporting their clients to resolve disputes. As a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) and family lawyer, I understand the benefits of FDR…
Power Talking-the right message, to the intended audience, in the most effective manner.
When we talk to our clients in family law disputes we do so against the backdrop of the relevant legal and social science concepts. We use words and strategies that are familiar to us and we assume that our meaning will be easily understood, so that we can lead our clients down the path we…
The power of language to create an image of hope.
What we say and how we say it has a profound impact on outcomes. Allowing clients to tell their story in their own words, asking open ended and clarifying questions, summarizing, paraphrasing and reframing-these are all essential skills that enable a picture of the conflict to be created to open the way forward and…
Capacity for good decision-making
As professionals in family law we are constantly required to make assessments about our clients, their ability at that time to make the best decisions for themselves and their children, and what would be the most useful way we can assist them at that stage of their journey. They come to see us in…
Insight from Shakespeare about the breakdown of relationships
400 years since Shakespeare died, yet his plays continue to have so much to say to us today! As I watched Othello on the weekend, I was astounded by the insight and wisdom that this play demonstrates about relationships and human nature. This is a tragedy that pushes relationships to a limit, and challenged…